Left with regrets by yomah

2D • Atmosphere/Mood • posted on May 09, 2007

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I saw Anna this weekend. We talked. We laughed. We argued. We fought. We left... her with her dignity, me with regrets. Why do we continue to push away the ones we need to hold the closest? -yo

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martingeorg

12:08PM | Wed, 09 May 2007

because we are idiots yo :) i just love that and find so much of my own experience there ... wonderful, thanks!

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Bossie_Boots

12:15PM | Wed, 09 May 2007

Wonderful image and words so much meaning and so much truth superb work luv lou x

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Lashia

1:50PM | Wed, 09 May 2007

Im glad you've decided to keep posting. You had a lot of positive feedback on your last piece. Im sorry you had a fight, regrets are always hard to live with. Hopefully you'll learn to grow from them.

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JillianElf

11:35PM | Wed, 09 May 2007

This is amazing work, and I had the answer to your question I might be a rich woman, or a wiser one. Love your work!

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4:30AM | Thu, 10 May 2007

i just love how you put together images and text. so effective.

ARTWITHIN

4:31AM | Thu, 10 May 2007

I don't understand either. I can say, that in pushing away the ones you need to hold closest, two lives are affected equally, two are hurt, two lose a part of their heart. The bloom never opens. From my own experience, I have my own insights, but can't say they would apply to all. Other thoughts: A relationship without trust will never be permanent, mainly because it is one of the elements of love. You can't truly love without trusting the one you love. In making a commitment to someone, you put yourself in their hands, both partners. If it is true and healthy love, each looks after the other, each protects the other, each strives to give to the other, and finally...the other is our first thought in all things. The reason for the last is that the two are one, so thinking of the other is thinking of yourself in an unselfish way. It is possible to share this type of relationship, if both people commit to it, and work for it. If not.... Yo, many times there are opportunities to try again, but if honestly sharing your needs, your weaknesses, and when you are having difficulty is not possible, the other will not understand what happens, and will not be given a chance to give, support and love. I wish I were given that chance again.

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Zarat

9:25PM | Sun, 13 May 2007

Fear. That's the reason for pushing away someone who has that special key to come to close to these things that we don't want to exhibit. Parents are good at this sometimes and later in life the close friends like gf/bf. If someone can not make you want to hurt him/her (emotionally) than it's usually no deep connection that this realtionship/acquaintance is based on. Often people are limited in what they can show you that makes you arguing with them. If you overcame these things they have the key to then they become maybe unimportant in your life. Sometimes someone can press the buttons and you don't feel hurt in any way and thus have no desire to hurt this person back. But that becomes more rare the older you grow. Especially with gf/bf. So... Fighting and arguing is some attempt to defed yourself and keep the ones away that can push the buttons that you don't want to be pushed while the attraction to these kind of people is some desire to grow personally by leaving behind "bad" (or immature) personality structures. Hope that's a somehow useful answer to the question. :) Very nice choice of colors for this picture and the message. BTW, does that girl look somewhat native american or am I blind?

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